Archive for May, 2010

New Page; Guilt


What did you do!?

Spilled milk? Pee’d on the rug? Kicked the dog? Pulled the cat’s tail as a toddler?

You were made to feel guilty from that point on- and that sense memory was used to keep you in line- someone else’s line, ever since.

If you were Tarzan, raised in the jungle, by apes… you’d have no problem masturbating in public.

Masturbation- as per religion- oof, that’s one to feel guilt over isn’t it? But as we all should know, is nothing to be ashamed of. It’s as natural as the sun rising, or the act of procreation. But we’ve been taught to feel shame about it, and thats why its one of the many good examples to use.

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… If you do not put yourself first.

That’s right. If you DO NOT put yourself first- you can’t be down with the NG.

If you do not have the commitment to self- please do us all the favor and take a step back- work on that- and return here when you’re ready to take it on whole heartedly.

Can I help you with that? Sure. E mail me. I’ll tell you what you already know and make you feel stupid for not facing up to it yourself- but you don’t need me to do that for you- do you? I’m kidding (maybe), I won’t purposely make you feel stupid. But most of what I know we’ss go over are thing you already know. If you need motivation- I’ll help you.

You know how to do this. It may take a little practice, but you know how to do this. What’s likely holding you back is that damned sense of responsibility to others. That damned Mr. or Ms. Nice Guy bullshit.

You can’t be heartless? No? Well youre being heartless to yourself? How about that perspective. It’s all about perspective as it says at the top of the main page.

If you’re not putting yourself first- you’re hurting yourself. You’re hurting number one, and you’re disappointing your MOTHER!

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New Page. Giving too much.

A page addressing the calamity of Giving Too Much for your own good.

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On the side bar, New Rule, New Links, New Page.

Enjoy your weekend all.